What Is Your Love Personality
? - Part 1
is your Love Personality ? - Part 1
By Alina Ruigrok
is an obvious fact that we can learn and understand what true love is.
What we are often not aware of though, is that there are different love
trends. Does it even matter if we understand love trends? If we are in
a happy relationship, then that means it is all fine, right? Yes and No.
Although, your love with your partner might run smoothly for a while,
it can take a turn we often never expect. This is why have an understanding
about love trends is helpful.
What may have turned you or your partner on at first,
might not persist later. How is this possible if they seemed so crazy
over certain things before? The reason is quite simple and reasonable.
When we first get involved with people, the attraction and lust is so
strong (not that it would not be later), that the way one seduces the
other is not truly focused on, but simply instantly appreciated, since
they are so drawn to one another.
As the relationship proceeds and the bond builds, you
will start getting in touch with your own style of loving and expecting
your partner to match up to it. At times, this will be just the case.
Couples can share the same love trend, but at other times, they can differ.
If your trends do differ, do not look at it as negative, but as a way
to combine them and form a creative love trend together. It should not
be one way or the other. There is no such thing as the wrong way to love,
except for obsession, controlling and abuse, of course-which is not love
anyway, although some feel it is.
How do you even come about recognizing the love personality
of yours or your partner? It is not difficult, but does require quite
a bit amount of observation. Start by making notes of your romantic qualities
and ideas of what great romance, sex and seduction is to you. Do you like
walks on the beach and dining at cozy, romantic restaurants? Or do you
like setting up your sexual activities by setting up a scene and playing
along with it, or just going with the flow? By knowing what trend you
follow, you will then be introduced to your romantic identity and know
what you need from your partner.
There are several kinds of love trends that you should
be aware of. It will help you come to a deeper understanding of what type
of lover you are and your partner as well.
Emotional Love Trend
People, whose personalities follow the emotional
trend, are lovers who pay attention more to the meaning behind things,
instead of the thing itself. A man who does not really care for picnics
on the beach may still love the event due to the intention behind it.
He sees the effort his mate put into it and sees the love and caring meaning
that his mate had when the idea was thought of and planned. Emotional
lovers are sensitive and love sharing with their partners and are also
very spiritual. They do not hold back from expressing their true feelings.
Creative Love Trend
A Creative trend follower on the other hand, may
have some of the same traits as an emotional lover, but focuses more on
discovering new things and trying them out, taking risks for a bigger
thrill. They love to plan and be a part of interesting activities with
their lovers because they like going through adventures and new territories
together. These types of lovers are found to be quite exciting because
they seem to be more mysterious and full of surprises and imagination.
Traditional Love Trend
About the author
Then you have the traditional trend follower,
who likes to follow the rules of what society considers the right way
to handle a relationship. They believe in having one partner, following
the dating and romance guides to the point (bringing a girl some flowers
when picking her up at the door for a date, just to mention one). They
also believe in being organized, being financially responsible and planning
the events that will take place in their lives with their partners.
Ruigrok is an independent relationship expert for Love-sessions.com
helping those in need for dating, relationship, marital, sexual and other
personal advice through e-sessions.