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So guys the big dates here. If you're about to meet someone for the first time there are certain things you can talk about and there are things you should never talk about. So to give you a heads up here are some do's and don'ts when you meet her for the first time.


Choose The Right Venue
The first thing to remember is that when you go out with her for the first time you want to be able to talk to her so that you can get to know each other. That means rock concerts, movies, discos and clubs are out the window.

Try to take her on an activity that she's never done before to make it exciting. Don't take her to an expensive restaurant because she will become up tight and apprehensive in such an environment (especially if she's not used to it, and so will you.) when you want her to be relaxed enough to be herself. In this way you can get to see the real her.

Always Use Her Name
It's important to remember her name and for god's sake don't call her by any of your ex girlfriend names. Women love to hear their own names, it shows them that you are interested in them and that you've been paying enough attention to remember it. If you bump into friends introduce her straight away.

Never Ask A Negative Question
Don't ask closed questions where her response can only be yes or no. This is not the way to get a good conversation going. Use open ended questions that require a longer response. When people say yes or no, you get the impression that they don't want to talk to you and generally don't want to be there. So will they, if you do the same, so try not to.

First Mover Advantage
Women love a confident man. It makes them feel secure and they like a man who always gets what he wants. When you pick her up (you are picking her up aren't you?) tell her she looks beautiful and give her a kiss on the cheek. This will show her your intentions to be a lover and not a friend who comes around for coffee (it's not a good sign if she pulls away whilst you do this).

It's A Date, Not An Interview
You're supposed to be having fun together, not interrogating each other with 40 questions. You can leave that one up to your parents if it ever gets that far. Try to talk about things that your interested in or what you do to have fun. Try to achieve a common ground. Don't talk about work or mundane things like that (BORING!).

Don't Discuss Ex-lovers Or Past Relationships
Do not talk about your past girlfriends and don't let her talk about her past boyfriends. If this happens she'll start reminiscing and start to compare you to the guy she used to be in love with. Worst case scenario she could start thinking about the things she used to like about him and you will quickly drift away from her. If she realises she's not over her ex, you're sunk. NEXT!

Don't Try To Have Sex On Your First Date
For gods sake don't try to have sex with her on the first date. Let her jump you if she wants. If she does, don't reject her. If it's the other way around she'll be screaming rape in no time and your dream girl could be gone forever. If you're dating, you'll see her again. So be patient, you'll get what you want eventually if she's really interested in you. And if you're really interested in her you'll be prepared to do this.


Things to take with you on that first date

Men don't carry handbags so its a little more difficult to suggest things to take with you. But here we go anyway....

You never know if she's going to turn into a complete psycho or if you may have to protect yourself and your date.

Cell phone
Always handy to have one of these incase you need to call the emergency services. Keep 911 preprogrammed and perhaps poison control (who knows, we're covering every eventuality here.)

You don't want to seem presumptuous but if she really likes you, she may jump you at the door as you leave her home. If you should be lucky enough for this to happen, you'll be glad you took them with you. Avoid STD's and unwanted pregnancy's.

Breath Mints / Mini bottle of mouthwash
Nobody likes to kiss a smelly mouth, it's a serious turn off that spoils an otherwise perfect moment. After dinner go to the toilet and take a quick swig of your mouthwash to freshen up. (Don't forget to spit it out again and don't swallow it or bad things are going to happen.)

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